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Marriage Details: |
| Note: One year must have elapsed from the date of marriage before a divorce can be filed in court. |
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| Did you live with your spouse before marriage? |
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| If you did live with your spouse before marriage, how long did you live together? |
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Co-Respondent: |
| It is highly unusual for a co-respondent to be named in proceedings but if there is one we need to know their details so that we can check we have not acted for them or had any professional dealings with them, as this would prevent us from acting for you. If there is not a co-respondent leave this section blank. |
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| Has your spouse has committed adultery? |
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Children: |
| Where you have children under the age of 16, or up to the age of 18 but whom are in full time education or studying for a trade or vocation, a form known as the “Statement of Arrangements for Children" has to be lodged with the Court at the same time as the Petition. A copy of the form is attached, please provide the following information so we can complete the form. |
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Matrimonial Home: |
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| Are you and your spouse sharing a bedroom? |
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| Are you having sexual relations together? |
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| Is either spouse carrying out housework or other tasks with another person? |
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| Do you or your spouse intend to marry or cohabit with another person? |
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| Since you separated, have there been attempts at reconciliation? |
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| If there have been attempts at reconciliation, state dates of such attempts and duration: |
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You/Your Spouse: |
| Please set out below various addresses, at which you have both lived since separating, and the dates at which you lived at those addresses for yourself and your spouse. |
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Behaviour Petition: |
| If you are considering a divorce on the grounds of your spouse’s behaviour, please give a brief statement containing details of the behaviour, with dates, if possible (Please see our list of types of behaviour sufficient to grant a divorce): |
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Examples of Unreasonable Behaviour in Divorce
- One or other party not agreeing to socialise together
- Lack of affection by one party
- Lack of physical relationship between the parties (specific examples required)
- Overbearing/unreasonable behaviour by one or other party
- One party belittling/berating the other for their achievements or lack of
- Constant criticism by one party to the other over trivial issues
- Unequal share of responsibility for child rearing/household duties
- Insulting or belittling comments by one party to the other
- Constant rows over trivial issues when one or other party refuses to speak to the other for days and ignores their presence within the house
- Sulkiness/bad temper creating a poisonous atmosphere which communicates itself to the children
- Unreasonable/unrealistic expectations by one party of the other
- Anger management problems by one or other party
- Jealousy demonstrated by one or other party in social circumstances. One party causing problems at social gatherings making it difficult for the family to socialise.
- Unfounded suspicions of adultery, accusations thereof.
- Unfounded and unreasonable levels of jealousy shown by one party to the other (specific examples required)
- Money issues. Examples of one party being “controlling” over finances and/or secretive within the relationship about finances.
- One party (normally the financially dominant party) maintaining tight/unreasonable financial control over the other and using finances as a means of bullying
- Habitual drunkenness or violence
- Financial extravagance by one party or another – living beyond their means
- Devoting too much time to a career
- Having no common interests or pursuing a separate social life
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| NB. It is not possible to obtain a divorce based on "irreconcilable differences". Presently the law demands evidence that one of the parties to the marriage has behaved in such an unreasonable manner that the other finds it intolerable to live with him or her. In reality the courts do not set a very demanding standard and in practice it is not normally too difficult to find some examples of "unreasonable behaviour" sufficient to satisfy a court that the marriage has broken down. The courts adopt a realistic attitude. In very many cases a couple have simply drifted apart and they do not really hold any special animosity towards one another. However, if they want an “instant” divorce, one of them must divorce the other on grounds of unreasonable behaviour. People often think that if they do not defend a divorce based on unreasonable behaviour, they will suffer in some way when it comes to the division of the matrimonial property. The reason for the divorce has no impact whatsoever on this issue. The other point to bear in mind is that the divorce is private. Details of unreasonable behaviour in an undefended Divorce Petition are not divulged to the general public and so in general no one but the parties themselves need ever know what was in the Petition. |
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Financial Information: |
| Please supply us with the following information: |
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Details of Interest on Savings: |
| Provide details of any Interest you earn from Savings: |
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Details of Any Divided Income: |
| Provide details of any Divided Income: |
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Details of Any Housekeeping/Maintenance: |
| Provide details of any Housekeeping/Maintenance: |
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Details of Your Current and Estimated Future Outgoings: |
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Current Costs: |
Estimated Future Costs: |
| Mortgage Repayment: |
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| Endowment Policies |
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| Life Insurance Premiums |
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| Pension Premiums |
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| Council Tax |
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| Gas & Electricity |
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| Mobile Phone Costs |
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| Telephones & Internet Costs |
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| Water Rates |
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| Maintenance on house (i.e. decorating, repairs and renewals) |
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| TV Licence |
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| Contents Insurance Premium |
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| House Insurance Premium |
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| Car maintenance and renewals |
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| Car Tax |
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| Car Insurance |
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| Car MOT |
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| Car Servicing |
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| Petrol - The average car will do 5 miles per litre @ 0.95p per litre. 100 miles travel per week = £20 per week. Please base your estimate on these figures |
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| Gardening |
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| Clothing Allowance (to include shoes, underwear, winter coat, boots, jackets) |
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| Food - This is to include all cleaning equipment and cleaning products (i.e. toilet rolls, washing up liquid, washing powder, toiletries and other incidental expenses for upkeep of house) |
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| Hairdresser |
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| Dentist |
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| Beautician |
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| Flowers |
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| Optician |
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| Eating out |
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| Window cleaning |
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| Cleaner |
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| School Dinners |
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| Children's Clothing (to include school shoes, trainers) |
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| School Fees |
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| School Trips |
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| School Uniform |
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| School books, stationery etc. |
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| Children's out-of-school activities (i.e. piano, musical instrument) |
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| Children's pocket money |
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| Holidays |
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| Holiday insurance |
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| Birthday and Christmas presents |
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| Credit Card Repayments |
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| Bank Loans |
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| Hobbies (e.g. gym membership, horse riding etc) |
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| Subscription fees/membership fees |
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| Legal Costs |
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| Pets (i.e. food, vet's insurance, vet's bills, kennels/cattery during holidays etc.) |
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Details of any Capital: |
| Contributions to property by you/spouse: |
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| Contributions to first home owned by you/spouse: |
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| Details of Bank/Building Society Accounts held solely or jointly, with account numbers: |
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Details of Any Assets: |
| Cash (in Bank/Building Society Accounts): |
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| Savings (details and values if known): |
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| If either party owns a car please give details: |
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| If either party owns a boat please give details: |
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| Any other insurance policies, apart from those for the mortgage (give details of company, policy number, ad premiums paid with dates): |
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| Details of occupational/private pension schemes with name of provider and number of scheme: |
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